I’ll give it to you straight:
For a long time, I considered the phrase “I've had bad experiences with advance payments” to be a cheap excuse. An excuse from clients who simply aren't willing to give me security as an escort for a date. Maybe because they want to keep a back door open regarding whether they'll actually turn up. Maybe because they never intended to show up in the first place. Or simply as a power play to test whether my clearly formulated deposit and cancellation policy also applies to them.
Why did I find this so hard to believe? Because the "business model" of generating revenue exclusively through advance deposits instead of actual dates simply isn't one for an escort. Even if I receive a deposit and my guest doesn't show up (which unfortunately still happens all too often), the organizational effort and financial loss caused by blocking out the time slot is far too high for it to pay off in any way.
By now, however, I see things differently – or rather, I have a much clearer picture of what is actually going on.
Especially with established and visible escorts, there are often fraudulent copycats out there, and if you don’t look closely, it’s unfortunately very easy to fall into the wrong hands.
Sadly, there are also fake accounts (“impersonators”) using my name whose sole purpose is to rip you off.
My handle on Telegram is “PleasureAndJoy” – but if you’re not paying close attention, you can very quickly end up on accounts that aren’t mine at all:
Here are a few examples:
- „@PleasureAndJoyy“ – subtle, because there is only an extra "y" at the end.
In the profile description („I sell content &do video sez chat. Incall/Outcall available 24/7.“) even the word "sex" isn't spelled correctly! - „@PleasureAndJoy_Service“ – likewise NOT mine! It says: „Available 📞 Incalls 🏠 Outcalls 🚗 Car Fun 💦Video chat & sell video“.
I don't offer video chats at all! - „@PleasureAndJoy_chat“ – not me either! If you want to get rid of your money without getting anything in return, that's the right place.
- „@PleasureAndJoy_bott“ – same scheme, see above...
All of these accounts naturally use old and stolen photos of me.
On Kaufmich and other platforms, I am verified, have reviews, a 100% trust rating, and there is virtually no doubt about who you are messaging with. However, links are not clickable there, notifications barely work, and sending videos isn't straightforward. For purely practical reasons, people often switch to another messenger, and when making that switch, you simply need to watch out!
As annoying as this is for me and for those who fall for it – avoiding this literal trap isn't rocket science:
- Simply click on the contact links under my booking form. The messenger accounts linked there belong unequivocally to me.
If you are wondering how to compose the ideal initial inquiry, read my guide on how to contact an escort for helpful advice on making a great first impression.
- Take a close look at which account you are writing to. Is the username written EXACTLY as specified? Or are there old pictures, inaccurate descriptions, and obvious typos?
Now, sometimes blood isn't in the organ where it ought to be, and so people might not pay enough attention.
If you fell for one of these scam accounts, I am genuinely sorry.
To avoid that, please use the official links on this website and read my comprehensive guide on Real or Fake? How to spot legitimate escorts to stay safe and recognize professional providers with ease.
Warmly,
